Tiffany Sauder spent twenty years building a company and a family on the same timeline. When the pace stopped being sustainable, she rebuilt her life one decision at a time. Life of And is what she learned.
Tiffany Sauder (it rhymes with chowder) has never picked just one.
Mom
Four daughters, eleven years apart.
and Wife
Married JR just shy of 25. Two driven firstborns under one roof.
and Founder
Bought and built Element Three at 25. Multiple Inc. 5000 rankings. Handed the CEO seat to her team in 2025.
and Podcast host
Life of And, weekly since 2021. More than 300 episodes, part of the IBJ Podcast Media Network.
and Speaker
Keynotes and workshops for rooms from HubSpot to Purdue to YPO.
and Leader
The first woman to chair YPO’s Indiana chapter.
and Investor
Backs growth-minded companies.
and Small-town kid
From a town of under 2,000 and one flashing light. Born with a big-city spirit.
Her story
Built the hard way.
01 · Where it started
Raised around builders.
I grew up the oldest of four in a very small town. My dad started his own business when I was in third grade, and I had a front-row seat to what that takes. I learned early that building something costs a lot, and gives a lot back.
Dad and the four of us
Big hair, bigger plans
Already taking calls
Just married
Early Element Three days
Finish line, full hands
Office hours
02 · Building both
Two careers, one timeline.
I was 25 when my dad and I bought a small agency. He was the financial partner, and I was the sweat equity. That agency became Element Three. JR and I built our family on the same timeline as the business, and for a long time my answer to everything was to work harder.
03 · 2018
There has to be a better way.
By 2018, I had pushed my business, my marriage, and myself to the brink, all at the same time. I remember lying in bed at night, staring at the ceiling, and saying exactly that.
I was so busy doing that I forgot completely how to be me.
The six of us, now
Still building
Behind the mic
04 · The rebuild
Change the tools, not the dream.
So I made my own life patient number one. One decision at a time, I renegotiated my yeses, outsourced what didn’t need me, and built simple systems so the ordinary things could run on their own. It took years, not a weekend.
In 2021, I started a podcast to share what was working. In 2025, I handed the CEO seat to my team to give Life of And my full attention. I do this so other women don’t have to hit the wall first. You don’t have to choose, and you don’t have to wait.
With you,
Watch the story · 1:28
This or that
Tiffany usually picks and.
Ten quick choices. Pick yours, then see hers.
01
or
Tiffany’s pick
Host.
“There’s always somebody at our house.”
02
or
Tiffany’s pick
Neither.
She’s a Spark girl. If you know, you know.
03
or
Tiffany’s pick
Pink.
So getting her colors done and hearing “Dark Winter” shook her a little.
04
or
Tiffany’s pick
Cook.
“I love cooking, and I always think my food tastes the best.”
None of it is fancy. That’s the point. These are the rhythms that keep a house with two big careers and four daughters running, and the same kind of tools Tiffany teaches.
01
Friday
A meeting with herself.
She looks at the week ahead, sees what’s coming, and orders the groceries before anyone asks what’s for dinner.
02
Sunday
The family meeting.
Everyone answers two questions: What am I missing? and What do you need from me? It’s how the house avoids same-day solving. The week’s problems come up on Sunday, not in a Wednesday scramble.
03
Every night
The ten-minute pick and put.
A timer goes on for ten minutes, and everyone picks things up and puts them away where they go. Every single night, so tomorrow starts fresh. Her rule: don’t break form.
04
All year
The house has a manager.
With two big jobs, a lot of travel, and neither of them especially handy, home repairs were always the thing that slipped. Now Neighbor Serve plans the year, finds the pros, and checks the work.
Life of And sponsor. Indianapolis area. Listeners get one free month of Home Concierge ($200 value).
As a mom of girls, her realness and humbleness in sharing left me with a new pep in my step. To have a stranger feel like a friend is hard to find.”
– Becky F.
I wanted to let you know how much I’m enjoying your podcast. I wish I had found it sooner! I started listening from the beginning and am 100+ episodes in. Keep going! ”
– Katie L.
LOVE your pod! I’m a 30’s lawyer working mom of four littles five and under, and it’s been so helpful for me!”
– Cecilia
Thank you for sharing the lessons you're learning along the way. You being brave unlocks bravery for the rest of us too.”
– Grace
Tiffany offers such tangible advice. As a mom and business owner myself, I love her tangible takeaways and hacks. A must listen if this sounds like you!”
– Erin D.
I love that this pod helps you to feel more confident not only through encouragement but by breaking things down to allow them to feel attainable.”
– Cadon
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